Why You? And How Did You Get Trapped?

Why You? And How Did You Get Trapped?

“Why me? And how did I get trapped?” ~ A Reader   All of us asked ourselves these questions. It’s important to try and answer them. Why you? Psychopaths can sense who will be receptive.  What made you receptive? The answer to that question is...
A Pearl of Truth and Wisdom

A Pearl of Truth and Wisdom

Today I received a comment from a reader named Lovisa. I’m sharing it here so all of you will read it. I’ve said it before in different ways, but it’s a fundamental truth worth repeating a hundred times, and Lovisa has captured and expressed it...
Emotion or Logic? Three Ways to Have Them Both

Emotion or Logic? Three Ways to Have Them Both

About a year after my experience of being involved with a psychopath, I had a conversation with an acquaintance about dating and trust. He said that when he was much younger, he had begun dating a woman he was enamored with. He said he admired what he saw as her...
The Hidden Vulnerability We All Have, Revealed

The Hidden Vulnerability We All Have, Revealed

We’ve learned there are many things that leave us vulnerable to predatory manipulators. But no discussion of what may make us vulnerable is complete without revealing one vulnerability we all have, but that remains hidden from us. We see others and the world...
Traits of the Psychopath’s Victim

Traits of the Psychopath’s Victim

  Do you have traits that make you vulnerable to psychopathic manipulation? There are certain traits we may have that make us more likely to be victimized by psychopaths. This in no way suggests a victim is to blame — the predator is clearly the one to...
How to Tell if You’re Being Manipulated

How to Tell if You’re Being Manipulated

Emotional manipulation can be so subtle and undercover, it can control you for quite a while before you figure out what’s happening, if you ever do. Some manipulators are highly skilled. They’re described by some as puppet masters, and you could become an...
Vulnerability and the Psychopath

Vulnerability and the Psychopath

Psychopaths can easily spot a vulnerable person. They have an uncanny ability to look at a you and tell if you’re a potential victim, one who will easily succumb to their mind games and provide them with what they need. Vulnerability is defined as being “capable...