Love Not Bombs: LOVE BOMBING

Love Not Bombs: LOVE BOMBING

You’ve finally found “the one.” Your relationship seems otherworldly, and your emotional high is so high it feels as if you’ve taken a potent, euphoria-inducing drug. You believe you’ve found your soulmate and can’t believe your good...
11 Places Psychopaths Hunt

11 Places Psychopaths Hunt

Where do psychopaths hunt, and how do they do it? How you can avoid becoming their prey? When psychopaths see an opportunity, they go for it. Since they’re opportunists, you can be targeted by one of them anywhere. But some places do present a higher risk than...
Manipulation: How Far Can It Go?

Manipulation: How Far Can It Go?

“I don’t understand why she would give it all up for a piece of sh*t killer. He must have played some serious mind games on her.” ~ A relative of Joyce Mitchell   When this story was unfolding in the news, I thought it would turn into a Major Teaching Moment...
Down the Rabbit Hole

Down the Rabbit Hole

You fell down the rabbit hole. You didn’t know it — you only thought you had found true love. You left the mundane world behind and didn’t look back, nor did you want to. You were let in on the secret handshake. You finally got a break, and it was...
The Known, the Unknown and the Unknowable

The Known, the Unknown and the Unknowable

“There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” ~ Aldous Huxley The unknown is always encountered in the midst of the known. It manifests within what is usual and familiar, and hides there. The unknown is the serpent...
Hocus-Pocus: It’s All In the Focus

Hocus-Pocus: It’s All In the Focus

“You were so vulnerable — that’s why I chose you, and why I was able to bond with you so quickly and so deeply.”   The psychopath I was involved with spoke these words to me the last time I saw him. It sickened me to hear them and to learn...
Psychopathic Seduction Secrets, Revealed!

Psychopathic Seduction Secrets, Revealed!

    WHAT MAKES PSYCHOPATHS SUCH LEGENDARY SEDUCERS?  Finally, here they are… Seduction Secrets of the Psychopath   ♥ Psychopaths have a grandiose, unshakable, pathological sense of self-confidence. ♥ They feel no fear, so they have no...
Soul Mates and Psychopaths

Soul Mates and Psychopaths

“Soul mates.” Those are the words victims use to describe the seemingly magical connection they felt in the beginning of a relationship with a psychopath. I didn’t even believe in the concept of soul mates, so I was doubly surprised and amazed when I...
Psychopaths and Love, the Book, is Now Available

Psychopaths and Love, the Book, is Now Available

  Psychopaths and Love is now available as a book! I’ve taken the best and most popular posts and pages (through November 2013) and organized it so it gives you what you need to know, in a logical and concise way. Learn what a psychopath is and how to...
The Mask of the Psychopath

The Mask of the Psychopath

What is the mask of a psychopath? Psychopaths wear a ‘mask’ — a fake persona — to hide who they really are. They construct different masks for different people and situations, and use those masks to manipulate and get what they want. They are...
“I Am Fishead,” A Documentary About Psychopathy

“I Am Fishead,” A Documentary About Psychopathy

  “What the psychopath does is they weave a picture of a person that’s really a dream. It’s a spirit. It’s not real. And you feel like you’ve discovered a soul mate. A deep intimacy. And you’re experiencing one of those rare...
Charm and the Psychopath

Charm and the Psychopath

One mustn’t look into the abyss, because there is at the bottom an inexplicable charm which attracts us. ~ Gustave Flaubert Charm. What is it, and why is the charm of the psychopath so powerful?  I’m not sure where the following description of charm came...