Your Feedback is Needed for Doctoral Research

Your Feedback is Needed for Doctoral Research

Your input is needed for a study on survivors of abusive romantic relationships with psychopaths and narcissists. This is a valuable opportunity to share your experience with a researcher who understands, and who wants to learn more. I have already taken the study and...
Knowledge is Power: Never Be Manipulated Again

Knowledge is Power: Never Be Manipulated Again

Never let anyone get away with manipulating you again. Empower yourself! Identifying covert emotional manipulation is tricky. You sense something is wrong, but you can’t quite put your finger on the problem. Covert emotional manipulation tactics are underhanded...
Want To Reclaim Your Power? Re-Write Your Story!

Want To Reclaim Your Power? Re-Write Your Story!

“It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.” (Joseph Campbell) There is a difference between what happened and the story you tell yourself about it. The facts can’t be changed, but the...
Warning Others: Will It Work?

Warning Others: Will It Work?

“Thank God I’m not the only one, but what can we do as a collective to warn people about these sick individuals so they don’t keep harming others?” ~ A comment from a reader   Her question is a good one. None of us were warned about the...
Invalidation: I Refuse to Have This Discussion!

Invalidation: I Refuse to Have This Discussion!

“When we invalidate people or deny their perceptions and personal experiences, we make mental invalids of them. When one’s feelings are denied a person can be made to feel crazy even when they are perfectly mentally healthy.” (R.D. Laing, MD, psychiatrist)...
A New Book is Born — MORE Psychopaths and Love

A New Book is Born — MORE Psychopaths and Love

I’m very excited to announce the birth of a new book, More Psychopaths and Love.   If you were the victim of psychopathic abuse, or just want to learn about it, this book is for you. I send it out into the world with the wish that it will find its way into...
Advice for Dealing with a Violent Ex

Advice for Dealing with a Violent Ex

 Recently I got a comment from a terrified reader with a violent ex, who didn’t know where to turn. She wrote, “Two years ago I found out I was pregnant with our second child. Let me tell you, it does NOT get better. During that pregnancy, I endured abuse...
Psychopaths and Love, the Book, is Now Available

Psychopaths and Love, the Book, is Now Available

  Psychopaths and Love is now available as a book! I’ve taken the best and most popular posts and pages (through November 2013) and organized it so it gives you what you need to know, in a logical and concise way. Learn what a psychopath is and how to...
How to Help a Friend Victimized by a Psychopath

How to Help a Friend Victimized by a Psychopath

“We shall be friends to those heartbroken and in sorrow. We shall share their sorrow.” ~Rumi ♥ W hen victims reach out to their family and friends after being victimized by a psychopath, many are disappointed by their responses. Deeply disappointed. A victim may have...