WHAT MAKES PSYCHOPATHS SUCH SKILLFUL AND SAVVY SEDUCERS?
How do such cold and calculating predators make themselves seem alluring and desirable?
FINALLY, HERE THEY ARE…
Psychopathy is the best-kept secret.
It’s a wildly popular subject, and it has been for a while. Psychopathic characters pop up everywhere. They’re portrayed in movies and on TV. Best-selling books are written about them. In reams of articles, we hear about psychopaths as serial killers, CEOs and those who work on Wall Street and in government.
We’ve learned there are many things that leave us vulnerable to predatory manipulators.
But no discussion of what may make us vulnerable is complete without revealing one vulnerability we all have, but that remains hidden from us.
What is the mask of a psychopath?
One mustn’t look into the abyss, because there is at the bottom an inexplicable charm which attracts us.
~ Gustave Flaubert
What is it, and why is the charm of the psychopath so powerful?
A powerful video about emotional abuse.
“I love you” are the three most powerful words ever spoken.
They connect, transform and heal.
When those words are said but not meant, they are something else entirely; they are implements of harm, and foretell of bad things to come. When “I love you” is a lie, it is uttered to get something from someone. In the case of the psychopath, “I love you” is always a lie because they aren’t capable of love. They use these words as a means to their own ends because they know the enormous power those words have over those of us who are capable of love. (more…)