I’m very excited to announce the birth of a new book,
More Psychopaths and Love.
If you were the victim of psychopathic abuse, or just want to learn about it, this book is for you. I send it out into the world with the wish that it will find its way into the hands of those who will benefit from it. This book is empowering and is intended to help readers overcome self-blame and other roadblocks on the road to healing.
Description of the book:
Understand the psychopath. Understand yourself.
This book is the second collection of writings from the insightful and unique blog, Psychopaths and Love. The essays within will inspire healing, empowerment and self-discovery for survivors of psychopathic abuse.
It is divided into two sections. The first section, YOU, focuses on understanding and healing. The second section, THE PSYCHOPATH, focuses on the psychopathic mind and will help you avoid being victimized again.
What readers are saying on Amazon:
“Invaluable. Having been in a relationship with a psychopath for many years, I desperately needed some insight into what had happened and why. I have gained a tremendous amount of strength and knowledge toward healing from years of abuse by reading this book. One of the best.”
“Excellent, excellent book! It brought me understanding and closure!”
“Insightful and informative! This book provides a good understanding of psychopath’s traits. It’s very helpful the author broke it down in different subjects for giving the complete view of a psychopath.”
“Five Stars. Very helpful.”
If you have already discovered and read the book and it was of value to you, please leave a review on Amazon. Reviews help get the book into the hands of people who may benefit from it.
♥ Many thanks to all of you for your continued support.
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CONGRATULATIONS ADMIN !!
For the world of broken hearts and trashed lives of those who have ever been victimized by a psychopath ONCE AGAIN you have brought HOPE “closer to home” !
There is Nothing better than a good book describing “real life” filled with TRIUMPH OVER EVIL to make this world a “better place”!! Like the saying “it takes one to know one” ! SO VERY TRUE!
Blessings….. CAROLYN
THANK YOU, CAROLYN! I truly appreciate your kind words.
As I’ve said before, creating ‘Psychopaths and Love’ has helped me as much as it has anyone, and then some. I took that hellish experience and made something good out of it (and the psychopath would have a fatal coronary if he ever knew…hmmm, perhaps I should send him a link to this site, or a copy of the new book?), and I want everyone to be able to do that. It doesn’t diminish the horror of of what we experienced — it speaks to our strength and resilience and to the recovery of our SPIRIT in spite of it.
Blessings to you, too, and to everyone.
I’m am one of the peeps that found your book first and then your website. Both of them have been godsends. I was able to make sense out of what happened thanks to you. Dont know what I would have done without them. Keep going with your work and find ways to reach more people because a lot need it. I was victimized by a man my aunt fixed me up with. He was her neighbor and a cop in town. and she thought very highly of him. She felt awful when she found out what a liar and criminal he really was. He was a cop and he was arrested while we were together, he threatened women with false arrest if they wouldn’t perform oral sex on him after pulling them over. A journalist that investigated revealed that he also had a higher then normal rate of using force against people, he tasered and beat up a lot of people. This happens more often than people think. It’s easy for a psychopath cop to have some fun with innocent people they pull over. I’ve been reading a lot about it since then and it scares me.
Hi, MaryLou. I’m glad the books and website have helped you. Very sorry to hear you were victimized, and that he was a police officer. That is indeed scary. I’ve done some reading about it lately because of all the prominent stories in the news about police brutality. I’m sure some of them are psychopathic, but in general it seems that lately the ‘protect and serve’ motto applies more to them than to the public. They can do anything to anyone, and just claim they were concerned for their safety — but what about the public’s safety? I thought there job was to protect us first. They shoot people because they couldn’t see their hands and it’s chalked up to how they should be able to ‘go home at the end of the day,’ but how about the civilians they maim or kill, don’t they have a right to go home too (I’m talking about those instances where it was found that the civilian didn’t actually commit any crime)? Instead of acting with restraint, they seem to use maximum force immediately ‘just in case’ it’s what’s needed. Any person or situation is potentially dangerous for a cop, so the psychopathic ones can have some ‘fun’ as you said at the expense of an innocent person. There is also a strong code of silence among cops. They protect each other no matter what, even when it’s known someone is a bad apple, or they will be ostracized or worse.
Thank you for your comment, MaryLou.
I attempted to write a review for your book, and amazon rejected it. I think it needs to be more specific, and not to personal, and not redundant. I’ll try again later when I have more time! (I thought it was pretty good! )
That’s weird! I didn’t think they would be picky — it seems like anything goes. Thank you so much for trying. Hopefully the next one will go through!
Maybe someone can help me… I recently ended a roller coaster romance with a man that started out as my soul mate but by the end had made me the other woman.. he has almost all the characteristics of a psychopath but I’m perplexed at the fact that he seemed to be close to his parents? When we first started seeing eachother he was driving up to visit them from Atlanta to Chicago. He was bringing them both large gifts, which seemed so sweet. I remember him saying in the beginning of our relationship that he didn’t have anything to do with his sister, who at 32 still lived at home and is a pathological liar. (Turns out he himself lied endlessly to his advantage) He also said he was surprised that his brother was so successful and married to a “pretty attractive” girl because his brother was the slowest of the siblings. However, his brother made him godfather to his two daughters so he must think highly of my psychopathic ex? I assume he is close to his parents because that benefits him in some way? Obviously the things he said about his siblings show his cruel side. My question is, can psychopaths be close to family? Ps- can’t wait to read the new book! Your blog has helped me tremendously. I am forever grateful. It’s so necessary and comforting to victims of these monsters that blogs like yours exist!!
I went from soul mate to other woman, too. Funny how that happens.
OK, let’s see…if your ex was psychopathic he wouldn’t be capable of loving anyone, including his parents. But psychopaths pick and choose who they abuse, and put on an act with the rest. Like you said, he must benefit from the relationship. Same goes for his siblings, whom he seems to have contempt for, except his brother doesn’t know it. He could be scapegoating his sister — you have no idea what the real deal is there. They love to make others look like the bad one, and they also project their faults onto others. They say psychopathy exists on a spectrum, so someone could have some traits and not have others.
Happy to hear the blog has helped you tremendously! It is necessary for us to help and comfort each other, otherwise there wouldn’t be much help to be found at all. Best wishes.