“Virtually all of the research done in psychopathy is on the perpetrators, and we tend to ignore the tens of thousands of victims of these individuals. And most of the victims have nowhere to turn. They talk to their psychiatrist, psychologist, their friends, their employees, their priest, and they get nowhere because most people don’t understand the nature of psychopathic people.”
(ROBERT HARE, PHD, PSYCHOPATHY EXPERT AND AUTHOR OF WITHOUT CONSCIENCE)
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